Love Affair With Human Design

by | Nov 4, 2021

Human Design has been pulling me so strongly ever since I discovered it early in 2020. And it was not some form of blind following the dogma either. 

It was deeper than that. 

Something clicked. Something whispered: “…this is it, Juliette, this is IT!” 

And it did just make sense for me. It gave me insights beyond imaginable into people around me. 

And through them into me and my world…

As a Projector myself, I can only share those insights with people who see and recognise my light. Who are open for it to shine upon them and draw those secret hidden visions. Or perhaps, the right ideas that were always there in the first place, quietly waiting for their turn to emerge. This is what I always have, ever since I was a little girl,  helped people with: see themselves embracing that bigger vision of themselves.

And of course, I knew straight away what discovering Human Design meant for me. I knew it with a full-body YES feeling. (If you are familiar with HD, this is the Splenic way, just knowing “in the moment”.

An interesting observation about splenic “knowledge” is that in another moment, it can respond differently to the same thing. This is why I learned to try not to commit to anything because whatever feels right now may not feel right (AT ALL) when time comes for that promise to be fulfilled. 

This is why I stay away from long term relationships with one-on-one coaching clients nowadays, because one day, the energy may just switch, and I do not feel the invitation to guide the person anymore. They may not even realise it yet, but I feel strongly that disconnect and know that our time together has come to an end. 

Which makes it awkward AS HELL to explain to people without them feeling like there was something they did or said that caused it. 

And yet, they did nothing wrong at all. Just the connection we had before is gone, and when that happens, I have no light to give. 

Continuing close work with the person in such a situation depletes my energy to the stage that is damaging to me as I start focusing on NOT wanting to feel this way and start hiding from other people I could be guiding. 

And that is not good for both my business and feeling seen and recognised alike. So I pretty much cannot afford it.

In the past it was easier to just “cut it” without an explanation. It probably still is, because explaining ourselves can leave even more scars. Just let me go if that happens. I have you all I could, even if you do not know it yet.


Energy is a HUGE thing for me. It always has been. 

Human Design let me see that there is such a valid reason for that feeling of total fatigue that I often experience. 

It can be physical or mental or emotional or all three at the same time. And it is absolutely normal to someone like me… yet the world does not operate by the Projectors rules and ways. 

We live in a world run by the rules much better suited for Generators, and that is where the danger lies, as it makes people who do not have the “motors” to produce the energy of their own feel so inadequate and disempowered. 

Human Design allowed me and increasingly continues to enable me to find empowerment in the way I am. 

And more – it allowed me to trust my intuition and my “third eye” when it comes to “seeing” and guiding others. 

Even before I ever knew about the existence of HD, I had joked about my third eye (the little ornament I always have on my shelf behind me- you can see it in any of my videos or selfies taken in my office.) 

And right now, it is starting to pull me towards my truth again and again. 

And with all my dedication to all my current clients, no matter how scary it is to invite myself into what is calling me so loudly, I want to help people like me show up so they can be SEEN and RECOGNISED by the right ones in their audiences. 

I am consciously letting go of the strategies that, although they traditionally look like they make sense in marketing, are actually damaging for Projectors and repelling clients from them, leaving them disempowered, secretly hating where they are at and feeling EXHAUSTED from the whole thing. 

Here is another discovery that I find super empowering for a Projector -it doesn’t matter what “should” be. 

ALL that matters is if you FEEL it inside. 

If you get chills when you say it or type it. Like, I am getting chills typing this now. 

THIS is where I speak my truth!

THIS is what divides and holds Projectors back from finally living “in the flow” (the only state that creates that magnetic pull for the right invitations to come into their lives: people, money, opportunities).

It is SO much bigger than marketing strategies. 


This is happiness. 

This is SUCCESS. 

This is feeling SEEN. 

This is what we desire. 

And this is what I am becoming an ambassador for!

Thank you for being on this journey with me! From now on I am allowing myself to stop trying to show up as an expert in marketing, but as an expert in marketing that is fully aligned with who you are. I am actively walking my talk and as I am opening my doors to private clients to work with their business and marketing strategies by design, i am discovering more and empowering myself even more to truly own the elements of my design. And the design of my business – read more here

Here is a pepe at my chart if that is of interest to you!

Juliette Stapleton

Splenic Projector 1/3

Juliette Stapleton is a Visibility Strategist for coaches and experts. She teaches how to attract clients online, creating your OWN marketing experience that feels good, easy and aligned with who you are and brings results.

Juliette has been featured in Forbes and several major business and marketing podcasts, like SocialChatter, 365Driven, Rising Tide, iHeart Radio, and Confident Live. She is an active contributor to world-leading online publications, such as Influencive, Addicted2Success, Thrive Global, Good Men Project and many more.

She lives in Tallinn, Estonia.

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