How to Use Human Design For Client Attraction Mindset
Running a business, constantly looking for clients, staying visible, and launching often comes with a feeling of not being enough. Feeling inadequate. The fact that our social media newsfeeds are full of super polished and seemingly super successful competitors does not help. I bet you found yourself comparing to the claims of yet another coach you see on Facebook at least once!
“How come I cannot reach that [insert amount]K month mark- it seems so easy to other coaches!
I must not be good enough…
…not charismatic enough…
…maybe I still do not know enough, and they feel it… (people with line 1 in their profile will relate to this one)
…I am not productive enough…
…I am not organized enough…
…I am not young/skinny/photogenic enough…
But here is the thing… NONE OF THESE STATEMENTS ARE THE TRUTH.
Entrepreneurship is hard, but it is incredibly empowering and a life-changing experience as well. Communicating your value, educating, and selling your offers on social media is tough, AND building a connection and sharing your expertise is essential.
It only looks easy, and yes, of course, there is the whole art of speaking in an engaging way, addressing your pain points directly, and making it sound like the solution is only one investment away… That is marketing and let’s not get bitter about it because it is just how this whole thing works.
There is, of course, a way to do all of this authentically, and this is where Human Design comes in so handy as a compass-like tool to rely on. Click here to check out my Marketing Blueprint By Design™ offer.
But back to feeling inadequate in your business. The worst time that triggers the deepest insecurities is always the launch times. And if you have never felt stressed, worried, overwhelmed and deeply insecure, and sacred during your launches, you are definitely a rare find.
Where you’re undefined in your chart is typically where you’re going to feel this not-enoughness amplified, especially during a launch. But even if you’re defined, you can still fall into a non-self theme.
Here are some simple daily affirmations you could use to get yourself grounded and centered every day as you prepare for and throughout your launch:
Head Center – searching for proof and the answers. There is a sense of fear and pressure when you do not know the answer.
Let’s “flip the script” – I can allow to draw inspiration in my sales processes and by my launches and their impact instead of allowing it to be a source of stress and anxiety.
Ajna – searching for certainty in outcomes. The pressure to have an opinion is heightened by the fear of not having one or being challenged in having one.
Let’s “flip the script” – I release the need to convince people during my launch and use my beliefs and opinions to guide the right clients to me.
Throat – searching for attention and recognition. Feeling not being “heard”. A fear of not being seen, heard, or noticed by others; a pressure to draw attention to yourself.
Let’s “flip the script” – My offer speaks for itself as I lean into my natural magnetism. I am supported through referrals and testimonials of those who know my value. By expressing what I feel passionately about I speak out when the timing is correct and release the need to “be heard”. The right people will recognise my value when I focus on the quoality of what I am saying.
G Centre – searching for direction and purpose. Being afraid of never finding out who you are or where you are going; feeling pressure to always know who you are.
Let’s “flip the script” – The outcome of my launch is in no way connected to my lovability as a person. I release the need to allow this launch to define me and my worth.
Will Centre – searching for worthiness and needing to prove or improve yourself. You’re constantly under pressure to prove that you’re enough; you’re scared you’ll never be good enough.
Let’s “flip the script” – By releasing my need to prove myself or micromanage my launch, I am free to focus on growing and improving. It does not define if I am worthy – it is only an activity to get clients at this moment. I allow it to be imperfect. I allow it to flow. I let go of “getting” clients, and I focus on “receiving” abundance. No matter the outcome, this does not define if I am worthy of prosperity.
Solar Plexus – searching for a way to avoid confrontation and truth. You’re afraid of upsetting someone; you want to keep the peace.
Let’s “flip the script” – Client attraction can be a fulfilling experience during which I can experience and process my emotions. It can be fun, and it is ok to have emotional waves during this process.
Sacral Centre – searching for a way to get more done. There is a sense of a lack of action; pressure to DO even more and more.
Let’s “flip the script” – There is no direct correlation between doing more and receiving more. In my sales activities, I am most valuable for my authenticity and mindset.
Splenic Centre – holding onto what is no longer serving you. Holding on too tightly and refusing to let go of fear of change.
Let’s “flip the script” – Even though I feel fear and resistance, I do the hard things anyway. As I release my fears and negative thought patterns, I will be able to move forward.
Root Centre – searching for a way to feel free of the pressure. Stress about not finishing everything; fear you won’t be able to finish it all.
Let’s “flip the script” – In the lead-up to my launch, my productivity is not dependent on how much work I put in and how much stress I am under. When I am feeling stressed or pressured in my body, I allow myself to rest and do what I love.
These are just some suggestions, but trust me when you start working on reframing your thoughts, your energy follows and you get to actually allow yourself to be in the flow and not resist whatever is coming up – and it will! A few helpful resources are:
– Order your Marketing Blueprint By Design™ report now and let’s meet on Zoom to discuss the most aligned marketing strategies that you can lean into.
– Check out these D.N.A. Alignment Audios for customised to your Design daily affirmations.
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Juliette Stapleton is a Visibility Strategist for coaches and experts. She teaches how to attract clients online, creating your OWN marketing experience that feels good, easy and aligned with who you are and brings results.
Juliette has been featured in Forbes and several major business and marketing podcasts, like SocialChatter, 365Driven, Rising Tide, iHeart Radio, and Confident Live. She is an active contributor to world-leading online publications, such as Entrepreneur.com Influencive, Addicted2Success, Thrive Global, Good Men Project and many more.
She lives in Tallinn, Estonia with her husband and her pup Baz.